PNEI # 6 - Multi-Generational "Curses"
Last post struck a chord - Orwellian Wordplay - Replay of last Legacy Webinar - Hydroponics
Greetings everyone,
As a general rule, the deepest pain a parent can feel is connected to the children they have lost—whether through abandonment or having them taken away. I can attest to the latter. I developed a “broken heart,” or in medical terms, Takotsubo cardiomyopathy, when the court granted full custody of my children to their father, a pedophile.
Yes, this happens, all too often. Approximately 58,000 children each year are taken away from the protective parent, with custody given instead to the parent who abuses them—whether through beatings, molestation, rape, or even selling them. Family courts have become a big-money system. Tragically, roughly one child dies “by court order” every ten days—a well-kept secret.
Canadian researchers have stated, “Maternal care during infancy serves to program behavioral responses to stress in the offspring by altering the development of the neural systems that mediate fearfulness.” This means that anxious mothers are likely to raise anxious offspring, a cycle that can continue through generations.
Children of Holocaust survivors who suffered from PTSD (Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder) have been shown to have disturbances in the HPA (Hypothalamus-Pituitary-Adrenal) system and cortisol production. The same was found in children of mothers who were in the last trimester of pregnancy in New York City during the 9/11 events.
There’s a test called the Adult Attachment Interview (AAI). By interviewing a soon-to-be parent, it can predict what kind of attachment the infant will have with their parent. The adult’s narrative often predicts how the future child will be reared. Furthermore, the child’s behavior will foreshadow the type of narrative they will, in turn, give regarding their own childhood twenty years later.
A central issue here is the unintentional transmission of stress and anxiety from one generation to the next.
The best predictor of health or disease is how we adapt to the stresses of life. Hans Selye, who coined the term "stress" (distinguishing between eustress—the positive kind—and distress, which leads to disease), spoke about adaptation energy.
Initially, we go through an acute phase of stress, then we adapt, and eventually, we may become overwhelmed. Take, for example, cigarette smoking. We often choke on our first cigarette, but if we continue smoking, our bodies adapt and the choking stops. Eventually, when we no longer have adaptation energy, we may face lung cancer.
Adaptation is our potential to respond to external stressors with flexibility and creativity, avoiding rigidity, excessive anxiety, or emotional overwhelm.
There’s something to be said about emotional genetics—it can be passed from one generation to the next.
Cancer and immune disorders have risen exponentially. These are diseases of civilization. Simultaneously, the family structure has been undermined, eroding the connections that once provided us with a sense of meaning and belonging.
More often than not, both parents now need to work just to provide for the basic necessities. Children are left with strangers or spend hours in daycare, away from their primary attachment figures. Meanwhile, the elderly have become burdensome, seen as useless and expendable, no longer contributing economically.
One study shows that one of the most significant factors determining whether a person will stay healthy or succumb to disease is their income. Many studies have demonstrated that socioeconomic circumstances, rather than medical or lifestyle risk factors, are the main causes of cardiovascular diseases, with childhood conditions being particularly important.
Family and attachment are important, and so is financial health.
Reading about these connections in books and articles confirmed what my gut told me a few months ago: financial stability is crucial for maintaining and restoring health. It was during my musing about this situation that The Legacy Program came into my awareness, and I knew I had to be part of it. See more below. or check it out here.
My last post about abortion seems to have struck a chord. It’s the first time I received "hate mail" filled with foul language. Whether we agree or disagree on a subject, we can discuss it politely. We all come from different cultures, points of view, and experiences.
I remember meeting a lady a few years ago who was a staunch supporter of abortion. Her “clients” were 9 and 10-year-old girls. We had a conversation, and despite our differences, we understood each other's stance without resorting to offensive language. In my opinion, the men who impregnate young girls should face severe consequences (castration?), possibly even life imprisonment.
A few years ago, I read about an abortionist who, after years of performing procedures, suddenly realized the gravity of what he was doing. After seeing the body parts on his surgery table, he recognized that he had been responsible for the deaths of about 2,000 babies. He now travels, sharing his story and shedding light on what abortions truly entail.
Are they necessary in some instances? Possibly. But NOT out of mere convenience or, as I read, having a bus outside a convention offering free abortions during the event.
The first time I encountered a woman who had undergone an abortion was in my late teens. A colleague asked me to spend the evening with her as she wasn’t feeling well. At a bar, after a few drinks, she confided, “If I hadn’t aborted, my baby would be 3 years old today.”
Abortions not only end a life, but they can also leave deep psychological scars on the mother.
One of my first clients suffered from clinical depression for five years. In her late 40s, no one could pinpoint the cause of her depression. Using InterActive Guided Imagery, we explored the 'black hole' she felt trapped in. Eventually, light shone through, revealing a forgotten memory of a rape in her early twenties, followed by an abortion. This long-buried trauma was the root of her depression. Once uncovered and processed, her depression lifted.
I recently received a newsletter about another doctor who stopped performing abortions. It featured an interview with Dr. Catherine Wheeler, discussing how compliant and brainwashed medical professionals can become, how critical thinking is often set aside, and how the dehumanization of babies parallels the dehumanization seen in war.
I resonate with this statement: “Reproductive rights should include the right to have a child, not just the right to end a pregnancy.” I have helped couples conceive when nothing else seemed to work, using energy devices and mindset transformation.
On the topic of wordplay…
Orwellian wordplay
This is how ChatGPT defines Orwellian wordplay:
"Orwellian wordplay" refers to the use of language in a manipulative, deceptive, or dystopian manner, drawing from the ideas presented in George Orwell's works, particularly his novel 1984. In this novel, Orwell depicts a totalitarian regime that uses language as a tool of control through the concept of "Newspeak," a deliberately ambiguous and contradictory language designed to limit free thought and expression.
Orwellian wordplay often involves the twisting of language to obscure truth, promote propaganda, or enforce political agendas. It can include euphemisms that downplay negative realities, paradoxical phrases like "war is peace," or the redefinition of words to change their meaning entirely, making it difficult for people to think critically or challenge authority.
In essence, when something is described as "Orwellian wordplay," it suggests that language is being used in a way that undermines truth, transparency, and freedom of thought, often for manipulative or authoritarian purposes.
As mentioned above, reproductive rights now the choice to have an abortion.
How about the word “gay?”
The term "gay" has multiple meanings, depending on the context:
Modern Definition: Most commonly, "gay" refers to someone who is attracted to people of the same sex. For men, this means attraction to other men, and for women, it can also be used, though "lesbian" is more specific for women. It is an identity embraced by many within the LGBTQ+ community.
Example: "John is gay, and he is married to his husband, Mike."
Old-Fashioned Use: Historically, "gay" meant happy, carefree, or brightly colored. This use was common before the mid-20th century.
Example: "They had a gay old time at the party," meaning they had a fun and joyful time.
It’s also interesting that the symbol of the LBGTQ+ community is a rainbow… which previously was a religious symbol.
Biblical Origin: In the Bible, the rainbow is a sign of the covenant between God and mankind after the Great Flood, as described in Genesis 9:12-17. According to the story, after the floodwaters receded, God set a rainbow in the sky as a promise to Noah that He would never again destroy the earth with a flood. The rainbow, therefore, symbolizes God's promise, mercy, and the relationship between God and humanity.
Key Verse: "I have set my rainbow in the clouds, and it will be the sign of the covenant between me and the earth" (Genesis 9:13, NIV).
Modern Use: Since the late 20th century, the rainbow has also been adopted as a symbol of the LGBTQ+ community. The rainbow flag was designed by artist Gilbert Baker in 1978 and has become a symbol of diversity, inclusion, and pride within the LGBTQ+ community.
Now we are being led to believe that joy is to be found in socialism/communism, Marxism, although it has been tried and has failed in dozens of countries.
“Over the past 100 years or so, socialist experiments around the world unleashed a vast tide of tyranny, starvation, and mass murder on a scale never seen before in human history… It’s hard to think of another idea that has been tried and failed as many times in as many ways or at a steeper price in human suffering… When today’s socialists talk about building a non-authoritarian socialist government rooted in democratic and humanitarian principles, they are far from original. In fact, that has always been what the earlier socialists said they would achieve.” Read the whole article here.
How about sexuality, which has turned into pornography and disgust for many women.
Dr. Catherine Wheeler mentioned above has this to say, ““It started when society devalued marriage and promoted intimacy without consequences. You can’t have a sexual revolution, unhindered sexuality, without contraception and abortion,” she noted.
“Sexuality has become almost like a transaction and physical only. If you don’t love the person you’re being intimate with, and that relationship is disposable, why would you love a child who was a result of that?”
“I think the larger issue is that women have been convinced that their value is tied to pursuing a big dream and big life goal and defining that as the most important thing about them. Society has convinced women that children get in the way of what matters most, rather than being one of the most important parts of our lives,” Wheeler said.
Thus, as traditional values became less important, people viewed human life as having less meaning, which resulted in a broader acceptance of abortion. Wheeler also puts some of the blame on Christian churches: “The biblical view of sexuality and intimacy within marriage as God’s good plan to protect children and women (as well as men), occurring within the sanctity of marriage are not being discussed in the pulpit. Most pastors are scared to discuss it. It’s a huge lost opportunity to prepare our young people with reality before the culture pushes a destructive narrative on them.”
Pregnancy can complicate your life, and the abortion lobby tells young women that abortion is necessary to maintain your own happiness or career goals. In fact, the modern culture encourages women to celebrate their abortion. This is how abortion is rationalized and is the narrative that Dr. Wheeler now fights against. “I want to put a pebble in their shoe, make them just a little uncomfortable so they’ll think deeper about the value of human life.” Full article here.
Financial Health
In my last post, I forgot to include the link to the last Legacy Program webinar.
You will learn what this Digital Legacy Program is all about. Of course, you are going to hear testimonials of people who made it, i.e. stuck with it and made it!
Why would we share testimonials of people who gave up after 1 week or 1 month? When I decided to get a doctorate, it did NOT happen in 1 week or 1 month. I had to put some work into it.
It’s the same: learning how to make money with this digital platform will depend on how you follow this proven blueprint. There is a learning curve. What’s great is that you can earn while you learn.
Although there are no guarantees, there are daily successes. You will be your own boss.
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Hydroponics: 3rd planting
I ate some delicious greens for over 2 months, then my plants started to bolt so I started again. This time, I did not plant a medley of salads; each pod has one type of salad. I’ve got 18 different kinds of lettuce + 6 herbs, which are Italian Parsley, Curly Parsly, 2 Cilantro, Tarragon and Genovese Basil.
As always,
LIVE with PASSION, PURPOSE and DELIGHT!
Danielle
Physical, mental and financial wealth makes life easier and more fun!
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